Nobody should ever make you feel guilty for making healthy decisions and working to improve your life.
If they do, it’s because they’re insecure about their own life and are looking for validation.
Call them out on it or cut them out of your life. You don’t need that and you deserve better.
I wonder if I ever caught someones attention. Even if I was just walking among the crowd, I wonder if they wanted to get to know me or anything like that.